Halloween

On October 31st, neighbours will be expecting to meet each other.  This is why Brian and Bente will be setting up a table where their home once stood, before it was one of three homes that burnt down at the end of July.  They are grateful for their neighbours and will be ready to share a hot drink with those trick-or-treaters who will inevitably pass by.  Of course they will be willing to share their story, too (I Thessalonians 2:8 - "Because we loved you so much, we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well.").  Their family has every reason to expect to rebuild and return to the neighbourhood they have grown to love.  In the meantime, they will take up "residence" for a few hours again on October 31st to reconnect on a night in which neighbourhoods come alive.  The richness of this goes deeper than decorations or giving candy.  There is no doubt that one could imagine this to be an emotional time.  The reason for this is not simply because of the tragic events that took place in the summer.  The reason for this comes from the application of Jesus' command to "love your neighbours."  For if there was no love among neighbours, there would be good reason to believe that this lot would remain lifeless on October 31st.

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Thanks to the Lacombe Express for publishing my article on neighbouring (October 16, 2014):

Neighbours connecting

2014 marked the inaugural year of Neighbourhood Life in Central Alberta.  This included the neighbourhood life trailer BBQ that played host to over 15 neighbourhood block parties that spurred on much needed connections.  It seems that the old fashioned neighbourly instincts have fallen to the wayside, much to the surprise of many.  Loneliness was one symptom that surprised those who lived a few houses down.  And just after someone told me that “it’s different in the smaller communities such as Lacombe and Blackfalds,” we found two neighbours who have lived down the road from each other for 18 years and  had never met.   Perhaps the remote operated garage door and the 60 inch HDTV have played a role in our “unfriending” our neighbour without even noticing.  Possibly, we have taken on the attitude: we can afford to live without our neighbours, so why bother?  The hard working family needs to get ahead, therefor, the work week is longer (after all, “busy” is the status symbol), or perhaps multiple jobs are required?  That’s the case with many I have met in the block parties that took place in Blackfalds and Lacombe.  It is true for my family as well.  But over the past year, we have made attempts to connect with neighbours.  The reason is simply for a richer community. 

            Each time I am in discussion with neighbours, I find surprises that give way to the statement, “I cannot believe that happened in our neighbourhood!”  That can be negative or positive.  Regardless, the evidence is clear that in this day and age, neighbours have found their “Love your neighbour” wall hanging something that used to be part of their lifestyle. 

            Loving your neighbour was God’s idea.  Loving neighbours make a healthy community, a place where love, joy, peace, kindness and forgiveness reside.  These are some of the attributes that belong to the Kingdom of God.  I have never met a neighbour in Lacombe or Blackfalds that has been opposed to these attributes.  The neighbourhoods where these are practiced have been enriched.  In fact, the statement, “I cannot believe that happened” has redefined ‘miracle.’  For it is a miracle that the old grumpy guy next door did that, or it is a miracle that the busy neighbour took the time to do this.  But for those of us who continue to drive by our neighbours without even knowing their names, we will never come to witness those miracles, let alone know the richness of what Christ was talking about when he talked about community.

            One thing to keep in mind:  Loving your neighbour is not about who you like or do not like.  Love is a word that God invented that He initiated without conditions!  The problem that many of us stumble across is that we will try this “loving your neighbour” thing and discover that we do it with conditions.  Love (I Corinthians 13) is negated if it is connected to an expectations.  Just as a parent loves a child, so God loves us.  And this love is without conditions.  Mom just cannot stop loving her children.  God cannot stop loving us.  It has no conditions, and it cannot be stopped.  This is good reason for us to propel ourselves to love those who maybe will never love us back.  But it is this love that we have been freely given, so that we can also give it freely. 

            It is clear to me that there are neighbours in every neighbourhood who have not had the Kingdom of God (peace, joy, kindness, forgiveness, etc.) demonstrated to them before.  It is up to those of us who have been loved; or, in other words, have been shown peace, joy, kindness, forgiveness, etc.  For those of us who know what this is like, we are being called to engage in loving our neighbours.   

Check out the Neighbourhood Life blog at www.centralalberta.blogspot.ca

Rick Abma  

Good Neighbour Coffee

Coffee is the second most traded commodity in the world.  So three years ago I learned how to roast and market coffee for the purpose of connecting neighbours and strengthening neighbourhoods.  On the packaging you will find true stories of what has recently happened in the neighbourhoods of Central Alberta.  Today marks the first day that "Good Neighbour Coffee" is available to the public, featuring three of these stories .  You can submit your story, too, as a way to help others reimagine the art of good neighbouring.  And you can start by picking up some Good Neighbour Coffee to give to your neighbours! You can find it in Lacombe, either at Sobeys or the Culinary and Gift Shoppe.